Right and proper
Lillian's account of incentives did not
include the notion from political economy of moral
incentive: a tendency for a person to make choices and behave in
certain ways when he or she believes that it is the right, proper
and appropriate thing to do. Conscientious, committed, empathic,
highly responsible people
with exacting work ethics, difficulty saying "no", and
susceptibility to the guilt trips that can be closely associated with moral
incentives, are well-represented within our profession.
At the beginning of the retirement process, a
life-stage, that can last 30 years or more, it is common for caring
professionals to search for the "right" way to do it, or to
guiltily postpone the search! In early retirement, especially if it
has crept up on them, they experience feelings of loneliness - missing
work colleagues and clients; emptiness - missing a sense of challenge
and productivity; and uselessness - missing the satisfaction of making
a contribution.
Style
Redefining
Retirement the
cover story by Melissa Dittmann in the November 2004 APA Monitor on
Psychology, pushes the point that achieving a balance - not
just of the banking variety - is at the core of good retirement
planning too. The balancing acts don't just go
away, but are there in different forms. As the retiree comes to terms
with what they are retiring from, and what they are retiring to, home
may feel crowded. Spouses and partners get under each other's feet and
on each other's nerves - and relationships, everyday routines, and
roles undergo a shake-up, regrouping around a new self-perception and
a retirement style.
But as a retired psychology professor turned
life transition consultant, Nancy K Schlossberg (2004) found, there are many
paths to retirement, and retirees do not necessarily maintain the same
style throughout. "It's an evolving part of your career
development, and the longer you live, the more your path will shift
and change." By analysing interviews with a
hundred or so retirees she identified six
categories of retirement style.
Continuers...
People who remain in touch with work skills and activities,
modifying them to fit retirement. These are the volunteers and part
timers who actually remain in their field.
Adventurers...
Those who branch out, diversify and acquire new skills. These
are the retirees who learn a language or a musical instrument, or
who take up completely new paid work.
Searchers...
Individuals who learn by trial and error, seeking an identity and
somewhere where they fit in, in retirement.
Easy gliders...
The laid back types who enjoy unscheduled time and like their daily
happenings to, well, just sort of happen.
Involved spectators...
Retirees who maintain an interest in their previous field of work
but assume different roles, like artists who collect art.
Retreaters...
Become depressed, retreat from life and give up on finding a new
path. Obviously, peoples, Style Goddess Kath Day-Knight
would be ready to have the last word on that.